huagongkeji 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

Quora精选:英国人为什么普遍高冷傲娇

Why is it so commonto be cold/unfriendly/antisocial in the UK?
为什么在英国冷漠/不友好/反社会很普遍?

获得11.8k好评的回答@christina Carè:

I don't know where you are originally from, but I guess I somewhat understand your question - I moved to London at the start of this year, and previously lived in Edinburgh. In Edinburgh I always felt as though people were quite friendly, though of course, London is very different.
我不知道你从哪儿来,但我猜我有点儿明白你的问题——我今年年初搬来伦敦,之前我生活在爱丁堡。在爱丁堡,我总感觉好像人们很友好,当然和伦敦差别很大。
I'm Australian. In Australia, we do tend to be "actively polite". I actually lived in Japan also and I think they too are more actively polite than here (in the sense that they must welcome you into a shop rather actively, they will ask you if you need help promptly, etc). Certainly, the UK is reserved in many ways, but I do think that people are genuine once you perforate that initial apparent 'coldness' (which is usually just reservedness, I think).
我是澳大利亚人,在澳大利亚我们倾向于“积极表现出有礼貌”,我其实在日本也生活过,我认为他们也在“有礼貌”这方面比这儿积极多了(比如,他们要很积极地欢迎你走进一家店铺,然后立即询问你是否需要帮助等等)。当然,英国在很多方面很高冷,但我确实认为透过最初那层看似“冷漠”(我认为那仅仅是“矜持”)的面纱你会发现人们还是很真诚的。
For me the most annoying thing is customer service. Here everyone is eager to get rid of you and not help you, not say hello or speak to you in stores/anywhere. In Australia I think we have a very good balance between being friendly and not overstepping the mark.
对我而言最受不了的是顾客的待遇。在这儿的商店或任何地方每个人都急于摆脱掉你,不愿意帮忙,不会打招呼或跟你说话。我认为在澳大利亚我们能很好地找到“友好”和“不越界”的平衡点。
But the reality is that I can't expect the UK to be like it is back home. I have to just remember that it might take more time here to get things done, or to form a relationship. I am hopeful though that when and if I do form new friendships with people here, they will be the kinds of ones that last.
但事实是我不能期待英国像我们国家一样,我只需要记住在这儿想要做事或交朋友都要花更多时间,但我还是充满希望地认为一旦我真的在这儿交到了新朋友,那一定会是天长地久的朋友。

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thankwc 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

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sonid 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

牛皮时间长了,就自然变得高冷

reichina 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

适应那里就好了,不行的话,就改变他

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sfy111 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

环境改变生活,人家至少在近代辉煌过。

likuantjbd 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

早晚让他们改了这臭毛病!

tfz 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

入乡随俗。

西米浩 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

人的性格不一样吧。可能伦敦人都比较内向。

Frank_2013 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

了最开心了

卜二 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

太厉害了~~

zhangjun8369 发表于 1970-1-1 08:00:00

这帖子是啥玩意?
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