Quora精选：爱上一个自恋的人，怎么办？
获得124好评的回答@ Sheeba Bhaskaran： I think you know the answer. A narcissistis busy with his own self. It's just that you are trying to cling on to that person whereas you very well know that he is not capable of satisfying you emotionally. So pls take a reality check and come out of it. Relationships are all about give and take and it starts becoming a pain when it is a one way drive.我觉着你知道答案。自恋的人总是忙于自己的事。只是你在努力不愿意放弃那个人，虽然你深知他不能满足你的精神需求。所以请你接受现实，从这段关系中走出来。恋爱应该是付出和索取并存，当付出变成单向时痛苦就开始了。 Respect yourself, take a call and move on. Don’t invest your time and energy on some unrealistic thought.要尊重你自己，在这段感情中谢幕并继续自己的生活。不要把时间和精力投入到不现实的想法上。 And sorry to say this but the other person is being what he is but you are being an emotional fool. Wake up girl.很抱歉说这些，但对方就是那样的人，你就是恋爱中的傻子，醒醒吧姑娘。 获得164好评的回答@ Lisa： Run. Run like the wind. A relationship with a narcissist is NOT a relationship! You are an object of convenience to the narcissist. Not a PARTNER. Carefully and privately plan your escape. Or decline to have a life of your own.跑开，像风一样跑开。和自恋者的恋爱根本就不算恋爱！你只是为自恋者提供便利的人，而不是恋人。小心秘密地计划你的离开，否则你就没法拥有自己的生活。 That's pretty much the whole of it. If you are truly with a narcissist, the end will be loss of self. The sooner you get into therapy, the better. Or just get out and then find out why you were vulnerable to such a person. I always recommend therapy. But if you can't do that… read a LOT about it before you get into another relationship.差不多就是这样，如果你真的跟一个自恋者在一起，结局就是失去自我。你越早开始心理治疗越好，或者只是走出这段感情，弄明白为什么你会受到这个人的伤害。我总是建议治疗，但如果你做不到…在开始另外一段感情之前多读些相关的东西。 It will be hard. But YOU can do hard things….!这很难，但你能克服！ 大连华工创新科技股份有限公司拥有全球领先技术、十年品质保证、贴心的售前售后服务，优秀的研发团队，保证客户不同的需求。有意者请登录www.hgcx.cn或致电0411-39525022密封点胶机,胶条发泡机,聚氨酯涂胶机,机柜密封打胶机,双组份淋胶机,板材刷胶机,断桥铝门窗注胶机 涂胶机 机柜点胶机 密封点胶机 机柜密封 机器人涂胶机 胶条发泡机 断桥铝注胶机 穿条发泡 板材刷胶机 汽车涂胶机 全自动点胶机 PU发泡机 密封胶条设备 自动密封 设备视频 机器人自动连续密封条点胶机Website： HGIT Dispensing system dispensing machine for Cabinets CNC PU Seal Pouring Machine Foam sealing gasket machine Injection (Potting) Machine barrier-strip foam technique Customized production solutions Foam sealing machine (FIPFG) Warm Edge Spacer Forming Machine PU foam dispensing machine Glue Dispensing Robot strip feeding PU foam Foam in Place Gasket machine谢谢你的分享
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