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Have you been fired by someone to later end up beingtheir boss by some strange circumstance? 你有没有被别人炒掉之后，却最终变成了他的老板的经历？ OK, I wasn’t fired but this is how it went. 好吧，我不是被炒鱿鱼了，事情是这样的。 Back in 2005, I had just started working and was almost at my peak ofbeing a ladies man (or so i thought). Always spotted with a different girl (orso people perceived). I was an associate and kinda developed a crush on thismanager. She seemed nice and the usual. 2005年的时候，我刚开始工作，当时是我作为大众情人的巅峰时期（至少我是这么想的）。人们总是看见我和不同的女孩在一起（至少他们是这么想的）。我当时是个准合伙人，并且有点暗恋我的经理。她则表现得很友好、很正常。 Long story short I asked her out and it worked. (Story for another day). 长话短说，我约她出去了，而且成功了。（详细故事改天讲） We seemed to be pretty fond of each other and hung out quite a lot. In andout of office. Later on, during one of her 1-on-1s with her manager, hesuggested her to stop hanging out with me. You know ‘perception isreality’ kinda stuff. That hanging out with a younger and reckless guy like mewould be a career liming move for her. 我们互相挺喜欢的，经常在一起，不管是在工作中还是工作外。后来，再一次她和她的经历单独面谈的时候，她的经理暗示她不要在和我呆在一起了。你们懂的，“三人成虎”一类的事。和我这么一个愣头青搅在一起，可能会把她的整个事业给搅黄了。 She didn’t listen and shared this with me right after her meeting. And ofcourse I felt bad. But not hurt. 不过她没听，还在会议结束后把这件事告诉了我。 We dated for a while and eventually broke up. For some other reasons.Mostly petty. 我们还是继续约会了一段时间，但是最后分手了。不过，是因为其他一些原因。挺遗憾的。 Fast forward 11 years, I join a new company as a Sr. Manager and wordkinda spread about me. Mostly superficial- based on my looks and age. 11年过去之后，我以高级经理的角色加入了一家新公司，结果身边出现了各种关于我的流言蜚语。主要就是些关于我外貌和年龄的话。 By the end of first week, a guy walks up to my cabin and greets me with a‘bhai’ after my name. I look at him baffled. It’s the same manager who my exreported to all those years ago. We shake hands and talk for a while. 第一周快结束的时候，一个人走进了我的办公室，他叫我名字的时候还在后面加了个“伙计”（巴基斯坦话）。我不解地看了过去，发现他正式那好几年前我前女友的上司。我们握了手，然后谈了好一会儿。 He then said ‘You have now become my manager. You have come a longway.’ 然后他说：“你现在已经变成我的经理了。你这进步够大的。” It was quite a moment. Mixed emotions. But I was proud of myself more thananything. Proud that I worked hard and earned my respect.
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