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做成年人有什么好处？ 获得39.2k好评的回答@Kanwal Anuvind： No one can tell me what to do. 没人能对我指手画脚。 Well, except mom. 嗯…除了我妈妈。 No one except my mom can tell me what to do. 除了我妈妈没人能对我指手画脚。 And maybe, girlfriend. 可能我女朋友可以。 No one except my mom and my girlfriend can tell me what to do. 除了我妈妈和女朋友没人能对我指手画脚。 Well, my manager as well. 嗯…老板也可以。 No one except my mom, my girlfriend and my manager can tell me what to do. 除了我妈妈、女朋友和老板没人能对我指手画脚。 Also, the bank. 还有银行。 No one except my mom, my girlfriend, my manager and my bank can tell me what to do. 除了我妈妈、女朋友、老板和银行没人能对我指手画脚。 I forgot the law enforcement. 我忘了法律制裁了。 No one except my mom, my girlfriend, my manager, my bank and the law enforcement can tell me what to do. 除了我妈妈、女朋友、老板、银行和法律制裁没人能对我指手画脚。 This is what freedom smells like! 这就是自由的滋味！ 获得53好评的回答@neil Kuchinsky： Some of the best benefits of growing up which aren’t often spoken of: 不经常被人们提起的长大最大的好处： Not feeling locked into the immutable social categories set for you by your peers (ie., not feeling defined by others); 不再感觉被禁锢在身边人为你设定的一成不变的社交范畴了（也就是说，不再感觉被别人定义了）； The development of significantly better self-esteem, which might previously have been trounced on a daily basis by toxic parents or other children and bullies you had no choice being around; 更好地培养自尊，以前自尊可能每天会被你身边无法选择的糟糕的父母或其他孩子和爱欺负别人的人所践踏； The ability to choose the people you want to hang out with or avoid; 有能力选择想要交往或躲开的人； Finding a way to recognize and accept your own skills and weaknesses, and knowing how to compensate or learn from the latter; 找到一种方法认清并接受自己的技能和弱点，知道如何规避弱点或从弱点中学习； The ability to have significant personal insight about what love-interests, jobs, and studies are best suited for your particular personality type and psychological needs; 有重要的自我洞察能力，知道什么深爱的兴趣、工作和学习最适合自己独特的个性和心理需求； Learning the real meaning of joy, happiness and achievement in your own life, and how to better slough off pain, failure and disappointments. 学会了自己生命中快乐、幸福和成就的真正含义，以及如何摆脱痛苦、失败和失望。
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